During these times of materialism many people are attracted to money, but there are also some people who even get married to inanimate objects. They are object-sexuals, the condition is called objectum-sexuality or objectophilia. Their primary attraction to the object is either emotional, romantic, sexual or animistic – believing that animals, plants, rivers, the sun etc contains spirit.
Swedish Eija-Riita Eklöf was the first outspoken object-sexual. She fell in love to Berlin wall at the age of 7 and in 1979 she married ‘him’ during visit to Germany. She changed her sure name into Berliner-Mauer. After ten years Eija-Riitta became widow when Berlin wall was taken down, ‘they mutilated my husband’ was her comment. In 1996 she started the first website dedicated to object-sexuals. She died at the age of 61 when her home burned. ……………….
Some object-lovers seems to be just having fun with their love story, but many serious partners seems to have on background violent relationships and losses of loved ones. Many OSs has been linked to Asperger’s Syndrome (inability to form relations) and synesthesia (connecting sensory stimulation).
Perhaps we can relate some stories also to holdover of love relation to dolls of childhood, or object worship in history, such as phallus, cow and sun worship. Volkmar Siguschin, from university of Frankfurt Sexual Science, however finds simple common reason; cities are becoming places full of isolated people. ……………………….
Sandy whose ‘husband’ the Twin Towers was ‘killed’ on 9/11 in New York, states; ‘I can’t imagine relationship with human, since 9 years old.’ While Amanda Liberty says; ‘Statue of Liberty says she has looked for years for somebody to love her like I do. I feel sad for her that she spent over 100 years alone with no partner to share her experiences with’, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8Z0t6744EM
Oshawott’s boyfriend is an imitation firearm; ‘I talk to him, cuddle him.’ She even tried to break up with him once, but that only lasted 2 or 3 days. Doordoctor’s loves are door pulling devices. ‘I have loved them since I was 12 (in 1996) on the classroom door. I take kissing the door device over kissing a boy!’
Carol has been married to Santa Fe train station for 46 years, and even changed her last name to Santa Fe. She takes a 45-minute bus ride each day to see her spouse. Anthracite has fallen in love to his cars; Clutch is 14 years old ‘snuggle-bumper’ car, and ‘sarcastic little git’ by times. His Blitz car is 20 years old, but Anthracite can’t give her up, although fixing her has become difficult.
Amy Weber, a 35-year old church organist in NY, diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome, married to a roller coaster. She has taken ab 3000 rides on her husband 1001 Nachts. Since 13, she has been attracted to him sexually and mentally.
One guy tells about his love to two soundboards; ‘They like the rough texture of my fingers and talk to me through frequency. Our intimacy is above-the-waist, i.e. kissing, hugging, etc’. He was kicked out of the church, because ‘he has soundboard in his heart, and not Jesus’.
In 2003, artist Jennifer Hoes in the Netherlands married Herself in front of his friends and family. Hoes says, ‘Why not pledge allegiance to yourself?’ In October of 2010 Chen Wei Yih married herself in Taiwan. She was receiving social pressure to get married, but had no partner.
A man in England was caught having sex with a bicycle in his hotel room and was afterwords arrested for it. Indian actress Aishawarya Rai participated in a ritual where she married a tree to overcome some astrological difficulties. Joachim discovered his weird sexuality at the age of 12. Just imagine of having sex with steam engine!
Bill Rifka, a psychology student, got married with an iBook. “To me, my Mac is male. I’m living in a homosexual relationship, so to speak.” In 2009 Sal9000 married to a character Nene in a dating video game “Love Plus”. British ‘Emma’ married her stereo system and “makes love” with ‘him’ couple times a day.
Lee Jin-gyu married pillow doll in public ceremony in a church! Davecat wanted a sparing wife, who would never leave him so he married a doll in 2000. “She is quiet”, Davecat told in TLC’s show, ‘My Strange Addiction.’
Erika Eiffel, who has four world records, realized being different when she saw that other kids were hanging out with each other, but she was dating a bridge. In 2008 she had marriage ceremony with the Eiffel Tour, and took officially name Eiffel. Her latest love is a guillotine. Erika says; ‘the world has lots of people whose heart is full of hatred, at least my heart is full of love.
A woman who suffers from post traumatic stress due to an attempted sexual assault explains, ‘Structurally speaking, my objects tend to infuse a particular linear and angular geometry. I have a strong emotional attraction to my objects because of a spiritual kinship.’
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And Common reasons for object divorce are “Just got fed up with it.” ‘ I divorced because the self made locomotive model got more and more destroyed if I made love with it.’ ‘I was in very much in love, but the physical side didn’t work as he was too small’. ‘I loved an object that I could rarely get close to. I relented to have a relationship with the caretaker in order to get close to the object.’ ‘Mostly it is other human’s intolerance, which makes to leave in order to protect ones life’.
These scientists created ‘The Money Group’ by having the members to think about money constantly. A control group was given similar activities, but without money. The results show that when The Money Group members were asked to donate some money, they gave almost half less than the control group participants. The Money Group spent only 25 minutes for helping on request, while the control group spent 42 minutes. The Money Group members left great distance between chairs during discussion and leisure activity. They rather enjoyed alone. These scientists conclude, “money enhanced individualism and diminished communal motivations.”
According profounder of PROUT socio-economic theory, Shrii Shrii Anandamurti, greediness can become a mental illness. He has stated; ‘the spiritually inspired mind should apply its power on the material world so that matter can be used benevolently for human progress’.
What comes to falling in love with objects, he has expressed that commonly thinking too much material objects makes one absorbing objects’ crude qualities. Basically one becomes what he thinks, so falling in love with animals can also bring animalistic tendencies. …………….
There are numerous reports of human–animal marriages in the 21st century, although engaging in sexual acts with an animal is illegal in many countries. There might be also karmic reasons for humans falling in love to wealth, objects and animals, but as well there are means to overcome these tendencies with therapies, others loving care and spiritual practices, that’s why we are here. Meditation has capacity to change object lover to divine lover. One can expand ones love to universal love rather than limit it to objects or animals.
But some humans are not yet ready for spirituality, so one should not condemn object-lovers especially in pedophilia cases; having sex with object even violently is less harmful than loving other human being in similar fashion. The cases of siblings falling in love after seeing each other first time in adulthood is more questionable, as some have ended up getting even handicapped children.
Shrii Shrii Anandamurti further explains
Objects are created due to the crudifying influence of Prakrti (creative force of cosmic consciousness). The differences amongst objects are due to the varying degrees of influence of that crudifying force. Suppose a person is concentrating to expand his mind to attain name, fame or wealth, such person becomes as crude as matter. Human beings have mind and are aware that they are human, but a rupee (Indian currency) doesn’t know it’s a rupee. Ideation on crude objects cannot lead human beings towards Cosmic Consciousness (the goal of human life).
Besides one’s karma gets strengthened due to increased desire to touch, see and cling to one’s objects of desire. A human being who behaves like a goat or a dog may be born as a goat or a dog in the next life. (However there are humans worse than animals too). The world is a changing phenomenon (spirituality arising). Therefore, it is unwise to be attached to any object. One should rather see every object of the world, including humans, as the expression of the Cosmic Consciousness.
Homepage for object-sexuals, http://www.objectum-sexuality.org/. A lot of research material about the subject, http://www.ejhs.org/volume13/ObjSexuals.htm. Weird marriages, http://thefw.com/weirdest-marriages-of-the-world-photos-videos/. Marriage photos of 27 people, https://offbeat.topix.com/slideshow/19006. Lovers, https://www.scoopwhoop.com/inothernews/13-inanimate-lovers/#.wly9ek008.
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